(Seriously, who'd want a penis when it's such an obvious barometer of anxiety?
) Treat it light-heartedly, don't make a big deal and let him know it's normal and you understand, and you're set for open, honest, communicative sex.
• Not stress about your body: Hiding under the covers, insisting the lights are turned out - you know the drill.
The more relaxed you are about the whole thing, the more smitten he'll be.
Be affectionate and shoot a few meaningful looks so he knows it meant something (if indeed it did), but resist hanging onto his legs as he makes for the front door.
In his research, Mc Ilvenna found that women were less likely to speak up about these things than the men he spoke to, many of whom took issue with the inconvenient placement of several public glory holes.
"They preferred a position where they could be on their hands and knees," explains Mc Ilvenna.
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